Im not going to deny it but the last thing I will do is complain or put my hands up and give in. but having been on the bench for the last two matches he now gets his first competitive appearance in the third round of the EFL Cup. Obviously, Im sad but, as I was telling the players, there is only one way. Some players win a trophy and think that they are on top of the world. The Special One has absolute power, total control of the clubs transfer strategy as they build for a better, brighter future. It is a world away from the lavish?settings they are used to at their state of the art AON Training Complex at Carrington in Manchester. Yet Moyes feels Van Aanholt could have been spared all the embarrassment had Sunderland been notified of a problem earlier. Things have got worse for the former Barcelona, Inter Milan, Everton and Chelsea veteran since the season began. Sky Sports5Patrick van Aanholt is left stumped when he is told he is being pulled out of the Sunderland side to face TottenhamHe fumed: It put us in a really difficult situation. But afterwards they were just saying how proud they were.